Blog Category: coaching
Coaching the Pursuer–Distancer Dynamic
When “Come Closer” Meets “Leave Me Alone” Coaching the Pursuer–Distancer Dynamic in Christian Leadership and Relationships The pursuer–distancer dynamic is one of the most common relational patterns in all relationships, and it is something that Christian Coaches must take into account when working with their clients. It appears in: Marriages. Church leadership teams. Ministry staff…
Why Old Patterns Still Show Up in Christian Growth
Why Growth Still Feels Hard: What Counsellors and Coaches Need to Understand About the “Old Self” and the “New Self” For many Christians, one of the most confusing parts of spiritual growth is this: if Christ has made us new, why do old patterns still show up? Why do fear, insecurity, reactivity, pride, avoidance, people-pleasing,…
